[Sosfbay-discuss] Applying NVC to the situtation (Re: Ideas from Far-Flung Places

[JamBoi]

It looks to me that you Roy want to play what we call in the NVC
Community the 'Right/Wrong' game.  I don't want to play that game with
you.  If we were to play any 'game' I'd like to play what Dr. Marshall
Rosenberg calls the 'making life wonderful' game.

I'll say again and right up front I really don't appreciate your outing
of private things publically and I don't appreciate your evaluations on
the video project without you having ever privately discussed them or
you having ever attempted to contact me.

The (still potential) video project can go forward at any time.  That
is something for the GPSCC and the GPCA and has really very little
ultimately to do with you or me personally.  It is simply an
opportunity for us to participate in.  If you don't want to
participate, I'll count that as a shame, but I would accept it.  I
believe that in all things its more important to focus on principles
than on personalities.  If you're willing to put the GPSCC, GPCA and
GPUS ahead of whatever disagreements we may have then let's move
forward.  If you can't bear the thought of reconcilling with me then I
am sad but I won't concern myself further with it.

And by the way I would REALLY enjoy it if you would offer me the "Gift
of the Guess" I have done for you.   Would you be willing to try to
make the empathic connection with me???

Impeach for Peace!

Drew

--- Duende <egroups at duendevision.com> wrote:

> 
> 
> Nah.. I don't want to play NVC games with you.
> 
> >
> > Frankly Roy I Feel Angry about the rest of your e-mail doesn't meet
> my
> > Need for Privacy over your private evaluations of a private
> > conversation between you, me and your friend.  I would have much
> > preferred that you simply give me a call if you have concerns.    
> > IMO it
> > is entirely out of line for you to have posted that publically
> without
> > first having approached me and talked it over with me to see if you
> > could get some satisfaction in your concern.
> 
> My intention was to let you as well as others on this list know that 
> 
> I may have have a bit more energy behind my posts than just the issue
>  
> with your censoring someone. I outlined my mental process for my  
> mistrust of you not as a indictment of you but laying bare what was a
>  
> possible agenda above and beyond the issue of censorship.
> 
> >
> >   I WILL say again however that regarding the follow up on the
> video
> > recording, last time I checked your arm is not broken and you could
> > have followed up by contacting me at any time.  As you said you are
> > well aware of my e-mail.  It is not my sole responsibility to carry
>  
> > out
> > a relationship between the two of us.  You have your part in it
> too.
> > So let's get this thing together and move forward, shall we???
> 
>   You seem to think it was my responsibility to track you down. Let  
> me see. You wanted the event video taped.. for free. I came and did  
> this... for free (I even paid for the tapes). I'm suspecting that you
>  
> never asked for the tapes because you really didn't know what to do  
> with the tapes or even have a reason for them. They are no longer  
> even timely so your exhortations to work on it now are quite  
> irrelevant. In essence you wasted my time but I'm suspecting this is 
> 
> because you basically just over committed your self for the time  
> period. None the less don't put the onus of getting the tapes into  
> your hands on me. I could have gotten them to you if I chose to but I
>  
> didn't. It's not because my arm was broken.. I was just entertaining 
> 
> it else where.
> 
> This is the last I will comment on this since it takes away from the 
> 
> real issue at hand and that is the right of you or any other member  
> of this list to censor any other member of this list.
> 
> Peace
> 
> Duende
> 
> 


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JamBoi
Jammy The Sacred Cow Slayer

"Live humbly, laugh often and love unconditionally" (anon)
http://dailyJam.blogspot.com


 
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